The Edging Game
Thought I’d take a quick second to share a game that Joy and I played the other night. It’s called “the Edging game”, and I have to say we had a lot of fun together playing it. Note that this is a...
View ArticleA Forceful Approach
When we think about a BDSM adventure, we tend to focus on the highlights…the spankings, the restraints, the penetration. However, today, I want to talk about the adventure time in between those...
View ArticleA Little Discipline
I received a question the other day from a reader in a budding D/s relationship. He is the Dominant half, and, paraphrasing, he asked me this: “Do I really have to discipline my wife? It seems like I’d...
View ArticleLeather Cuffs and Silken Bonds – the Book
I have finally completed something I’ve been threatening to do for a long time. I have written an e-book. Joy assisted in both the editing as well as adding a few contributions of her own. It’s called...
View ArticleFirst Review
Just got the very first review of my e-book on BDSM, Exploring Dark Dreams, on Amazon. I don’t know who this reviewer is, but thanks very much for the kind words, and glad you enjoyed reading it. Hope...
View ArticleThanks for the Kind Words
Thanks very much to those who have purchased my eBook, “Exploring Dark Dreams: A Beginner’s Practical Guide to BDSM”, and thanks especially to those who have been willing to review it on Amazon! Here’s...
View ArticleD/s Contract
I thought visitors might be interested in reading a sample of the contract that Joy and I have put in place. For a good portion of our BDSM relationship, I felt that a contract really wasn’t necessary...
View ArticleAnother Review…
…of my book, Exploring Dark Dreams: A Beginner’s Practical Guide to BDSM. Hopefully one day I’ll get enough of these that I won’t feel compelled to share them word for word on this blog, but for now,...
View ArticleCar Wash Challenge
Here it is mid-March, and the nice weather is making me think of spring rituals. You know, things like planting flowers, grilling out on the deck, and of course, getting the car washed. After a long...
View ArticleMaking Her Come
One of my very favorite things to do with Joy is to make her come. Note the emphasis on the word “make”. It’s not just that I act as the cause of her orgasm—though that’s a good thing as well—but that...
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